Healing from ritual abuse is an intensive and long-term process. A process that is not pretty nor easy, but certainly worth it. Anyone who decides to take on the role of “facilitator” with someone who is a victim will best conclude that they will need to sacrifice their whole life to help. This is the importance of the preference to have a team of people helping one individual. This is not only costly in attention but also socially dangerous. Dangerous in the way that the perpetrators of the crime against the survivor can still be alive and well. Willing to do everything to keep their crimes covered up. Looking to the future as more people take on the mantle of being a protector for the victims, a larger cultural consciousness of ritual abuse is taking place. This has been long awaited and is the most important awakening in the collective cultural consciousness occurring now.
For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7
The above verse is what I think about helping anyone heal emotionally, including myself. It may seem simple and I’m just looking for a bible verse to make things make sense. It could seem like that. When we look at this verse closer, I’ve yet to find any concept that addresses the healing of the whole person like this verse does.
Trauma, Ritual Abuse, and Psychological Coercion are built upon fear. It is all based upon fear, terror, and guilt. A reinforcing program of consequence that shatters a person’s self of goodness (their soul) and buries it inside the psyche through trauma. This trauma implants a replacement program or false self that takes the place of the person’s soul essence which they have disassociated from. These programs can also obstruct and eliminate the opportunity for healing by convincing a person that no one can be trusted. Those people who are violent and aggressive have often accepted the lies that they are worthless, will always be abandoned, and are un loveable. Can we blame them for feeing as such? It is understandable they question if anyone could ever love someone who has done the things that they have?
So as we work to part the waters of a person’s defense mechanisms we also must act in the same power that God tells us to abide within. This power is the trust that God will make a way and to not fear, aside from all the terror that may present itself to you.
This “power” is manifested as the gifts that God has given us to utilize for the freeing of others. This can be psychic gifts, the ability to “see” certain situations, the ability to communicate telepathically with distant pieces, or the authority to stand up to entities that they believe hold some sort of ownership over the part of a person.
The “love” that is to given into another’s life is the new base line these victims will need to experience to begin to accept that life can be presented in a way differently than it has been in their memories. This can be the reorientation of learning about being loved without sexual interaction. At some point in time that can revert to now being in a secure relationship and learning about love through sexual interaction. The most important part is the developing experience of un conditional love. That which by and large is naturally foreign to this world and when it is expressed in limited amounts at first it can be difficult to identify.
“Sound Mind” is a crucial element of helping a person heal and get back on their feet. The goal of healing should always be to get a person to the point where they are able to walk out their own healing journey. It is a giant waste of time and opportunity to expect someone else to do our healing for us. At a certain point we all must jump of the nest to fly. When looking at life from the framework of ‘Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs’ it can be easy to mix up dimensions. There are times in life when nothing but a miracle would suffice for us to overcome an obstacle. But this does not mean that we should desire for ourselves a miracle when in fact we are simply to lazy to get a job or to scared to ask someone out on a date. This in my experience is what takes the most time when working with people who have had less than supportive childhood upbringings. Often times these individuals need to simply be taught how to function in the everyday world well enough to be able to keep on.
Beginning Where one left off
Only lately have I become to recognize that many of those who have been targeted for ritual abuse and programming are usually individuals with strong psychic, artistic, and intellectual gifts. Un fortunately it appears that if a survivor is merely able to survive we consider that as good enough. I’ve slowly began to accept that once we are able to get through the healing process of systematic abuse, that we are not yet done. For we came into this dimension prior to the abuse and if left un deterred we would have lived out that soul mission naturally.
Many of us are at square one. After having lost many years of our lives paying to repair that which was not ours to repay. That has included myself. As much as learning about healing the soul body and trying my best to place words to the methods to do so, I am as of today recognizing a greater spiritual dimension to my life. A deeper expression that is at this moment difficult to explain much with any tangibility (In the future I trust this will become seen, in short Elven Wisdom Teaching).
All this is said to organize two things. Traditional religious perspectives can cause us to close our eyes to larger spiritual worlds in the name of keeping us “safe”. For me personally this view point though at one time influential in my thinking has become more and more insignificant. There comes a point and time where fear becomes exhaustive. Therefore I believe it is the freedom of the soul to explore and better understand conscious reality in whatever way one’s curiosity behooves them as long as all beings are honored as originating from source.
The second thing I want to express. Is now that you get closer to the baseline soul that God made you to be. I encourage you to not be afraid to explore the deeper callings of your soul and to beautifully manifest the realities of divine destiny that this current Earth system struggles to implement.
Manifold Mountain 